Totally sad!

so you guys always tell me i'm all nice and stuff, well i try to be....and even here at work, i try to be...so when a co-worker goes off on me for a stupid reason i am totally taken aback and i can't stop crying! apparently i loaded a pallet too high but we were always told that as long as the parts dont go over the top of the pallet it can be sent like that,quit smoking now, so i brought it to her,quit smoking, and she said "what am i supposed to do with that? i'm not trying to be mean here (yes she was) but i can't accept it like that. you know i'm not going to accept it like that " and she went on and on and on and spoke to me in a very derogatory way. i am ALWAYS kind to her and always try to help her out. all she needed to say to me was "hey we cant accept this like this can you help me take one out?" I thought we were buds man!! this is upsetting and i am very sad. now things are going to be all weird over here between me and her. sigh. just ranting. im done.